Lately I have been struggling not to do this - or check her FB or whatever. Not in a great place, if ya'll can tell...
Don't do it. Obviously I don't always listen to my own advice, but just don't do it. Every time I check my fears are proven correct and I'm thrown into an emotional tailspin that lasts for days. This one is lasting longer because I had foolishly thought we had moved past the EA. I didn't realize how much I had reattached until now. Time to go back to seperating my happiness from her actions.
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou
