Having a good day with s4. I asked him what he wanted to get mommy for christmas, and he said a wedding ring so he can get a step dad. Says that he wants a step mom and step dad so that he will have spare parents and more family. I guess that is a healthy way to look at it if you are 4. But, I do not want to be split from what I had, so it kinda threw me backwards. He also asked if I can come visit him at W house and play Xbox with him. Then he said to stop this and not let mommy quit being married to you. He said if I won't, then he will. I told him that mommy can do whatever mommy wants, and nobody has the right to stop it. Not really sure what I should have said, but I gave him truth.
That all hurts.
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....