Originally Posted By: PigPen

At this point it feels like two separate spaces, the one in which I miss her and our life together, and the one where she's a non factor, a part of my history. Most days I can stay out of the hurtful space with only brief visits. I'm hoping that time keeps that trend going.


Of course it will!

You should also try to develop a countermeasure.... When you are in the funk, ask yourself "What could I do right now to turn this around?"

Then make that a priority. Exercising, watching the game, going to a place you love, reading, seeing a friend, etc. Do something fun!


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015