At this point it feels like two separate spaces, the one in which I miss her and our life together, and the one where she's a non factor, a part of my history. Most days I can stay out of the hurtful space with only brief visits. I'm hoping that time keeps that trend going.
Of course it will!
You should also try to develop a countermeasure.... When you are in the funk, ask yourself "What could I do right now to turn this around?"
Then make that a priority. Exercising, watching the game, going to a place you love, reading, seeing a friend, etc. Do something fun!
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015