Hi Mahhhty. Inlaws have to put their blood first. Tough but it's how it is. Best to put that one out of thought because they had no choice and that's that
Can't help re old threads but maybe Cadet will oblige
Texting is the lessor of the evils of contact. Polite and short and then out of mind. It's part and parcel of having children together so do it and don't dwell