Hey Fogg,

I agree with everything you are saying.

I do need to stand up for myself. she is just making it so hard for me.

You hit it on the head. She said she and her father are right for trying to help me and I am in the wrong for feeling uneasy about taking the help. I feel more comfortable if people just stuck to the agreements we had. I appreciate the help, but it puts me in a tough sitch of it being held over my head. Just like you are saying.

I see value in just keeping it fair following the rules so that there is no confusion and everyone is on the same page.

At first she said she will talk about it in the new year. I have read how WW will manipulate the H around Christmas time to get what they want (help with gifts ect.) only to change after the holidays are over.

I having a hard time believing what she is telling me. I find it hard to accept that she cares for me and is looking out for me. Of course I want to believe her, to believe that she does care.

I agree the sitch with the banking needs to be changed.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016