Vise
In my personl opinion, she is full of Sh*t! She is looking out for herself only. If it were me i would make a drastic change concerning the finances. I would completely separate everything. I would make checks out to the bills she is paying not to her.

Call her bluff.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15