Unlurking, Rd II: Hitting reset

[Vanilla]

Apologies for some reason the whole post didn't post!

Once you have decided to truth darted then is the time to set your boundaries and decide that WW gets to know you are beginning to let go of the rope. You do so to protect yourself (pure motive) not for revenge (passive aggressive).

So, if you are going to make sure that WW knows that your boundary is breached then you have to set the boundary, and state it. For example my WH ranted about having the wrong bacon and was extremely insulting so WH when you speak to me like this I feel insulted, if you want food in future you will let me know by writing a list when I go shopping I will get the things you list. Then we had the apple juice rant. So WH since you have spoken to me in this way you can purchase your own food.

Otherwise the actions you take look random, be prepared to enforce a boundary consistently.

Also messing with car safety probably not the safest way of showing independence from WW, or o enforcing a boundary.

So , I am going to ask you some questions, if you are not ready to answer these then please say not now V. It's ok to defer or even not respond.

So:

Which boundaries of yours has WW breached?

What consequences do you foresee to those breaches?

How will you enforce those consequences?

If so, what are your boundary statements?

If you need help on boundaries there are terrific posts on the resource section of the site, I also like Al Turtle on boundaries, it's written for young adults but so beautifully written, it can appeal to any age. So Google Al Turtle Boundaries.

Just my 2c.

V