Unlurking, Rd II: Hitting reset

[Vanilla]

The sentence that got the truth from my WH was "we both know the truth don't we?"

I also said "if you are going to try to mislead me, that will make things worse"

Beware though truth darts will be a boil lancing exercise. They can be a game changer, in my case WH went public with an A, in the second he ranted and in the final case he left ranting.

In my case I had nothing further to loose and had already dropped the rope. WH even tried saying I had thrown him out of the house, when in actual fact he raged when truth darted about his location and stormed out saying I wasn't allowed to check up on him!. I was very calm and had it recorded. So if you do truth dart, try a recording. Truth darts work best without confrontation. Truth dart then STFU, let the other fill the silence gap. Lies are long winded and complex. Protesting is throwing it back on you. So no guilt on your part, plan the truth dart.

If you already have the Intel, you know, so decide exactly what truth darting is going to do for you.

If it's nothing at all and will set you back. Then STFU smoothies may be better.

I believe in Intel. Five serving friends, who, what, when, where and why.

There is a remarkable on line resource kit if you google how to tell the truth, PDF. It is worthwhile getting your own house in order first. Let he without sin throw the first etc and those in glasshouses should not throw stones. So test your own voracity.

Just my 2c.

V