Hey,

It is so hard to trust what my W says about looking at every detail and I am going to pay more. But then I asked my self what is in it for her?

She has asked for a raise in pay. She doesn't know that I know that. I think she has got one. Her pay has increased. I asked about her pay being all over the place and she has said that her hours are all over the place.

She is saying she is looking out for me. I find it hard to trust her right now.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016