SciDad, I scraped the ice off my own car this morning, its not that much of a struggle! I didn't pack my H's lunch yesterday or today and I feel passive aggressive. Its kind of funny how they can CHEAT on us and LIE to us and we feel bad that we aren't going out of our way to baby them with things such as scraping the ice or packing a lunch. I think I feel worse about not packing his lunch for 2 days in a row than he feels about cheating on me. I know, mind reading. But I usually pack him really nice breakfasts and lunches and snacks, all organic healthy homemade stuff, because he leaves at 5 am and I like to make his early mornings easier. This morning I could hear him scrounging around the fridge for something and I was in bed and I actually felt bad.