Minor early morning win - I didn't check my wife's phone this morning. I was tempted to look if I was right that they had a fight last night, but then I realized that nothing would be gained my it.

It saddens me to realize how much my wife's outlook on life is tied up with this POS OM. They fight, she is cranky as all get out at home. Sulking around the house and snapping at the kids. They are on the mends and she's all happy. Flirty with me, very loving with the kids.

I also didn't scrape the frost off of my wife's car like I usually do this morning, but that was probably more do to spite than any DB goal. It was mice to see her struggle to get to work without my help, but I feel crappy about it because I know it was really just a passive-aggressive move on my part. I can't honestly say I was trying to detach or showing her what it would be like without me. I still have a lot of improvements to make

Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou