Thanks for stopping by and the support pho. It always make me feel better. You asked what I do around the house. I do my thing, hang out with son, house chores, cook, watch tv or surf the web. My son plays his xbox online with his friends. I cook dinner and hang out with him. I'm not sure he can hear the quiet with his headphones on. I think he is a bit of an avoider like his mother.He knows we're in separate beds, there is no fighting at all and we talk about all household issues so life seems okay to him. So until he struggles or asks I'll let it go. I am sorry your husbands words are hurtful. It must be so hard to see those words come out of his mouth. Your a really good women to love him when he is so tortured and hurting you. Be well