Tl2, that is exactly what I did for 2-3 months. I think I caught it just as it was reaching is peak and even have their responses to my confrontation and their strategies of evading detection. It's all saved and backed up off site for security. I'm not sure if I'll ever use it, but it is the ace up my sleeve my w had never seen. She knows I have something, but I never revealed what I have or how I got it.

But I'm tired of it. More Intel isn't healthy for me. She's asleep and her phone is 4 feet away from me, but ihave no desire to spy.

So I'm leaning toward option 2-direct about my needs without directly accusing her of anything. No matter her answer, my actions would be justified. But I'll do wait a few days before I act


Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou