Pho, first of all thank you for stopping in. The presence of you and everyone else here had called my inner turmoil to the point where I can almost feel at peace. Gone is anger, replaced now with a feeling of "meh." I feel better, more in control of myself.

I project confidence, calm, and warmth. Even if I struggle to keep it together as I drive to work/home. I know my wife is struggling with her choices now (even if she doesn't realize it), but that is not my concern. My goal is to be the calm during this storm enveloping my family. And to be there for my kids above all else.

I don't know where this is heading and I am fine with that. I will work on my journey and try to enjoy the personal growth I will achieve.

Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou