Finally got a chance to catch up on your situation. You are being so strong and brave right now. I am in awe of your spirit. Going back to work full time after working as a SAHM is a huge adjustment. The distraction is wonderful but making that shift in the midst of a separation is very difficult. I was so tapped out mentally and physically. It took me a good 3 months to adjust then I had a fall and dealt with being out for 6 weeks and am still not back 100% -- but I digress...
Butterc --- give yourself a big high five and an enormous hug for all that you have accomplished. Your daughter will remember that you did not let this period of turmoil destroy you. She will see that while you don't have the answers you will not be idle in standing up for your loved ones and for yourself. She will see that there is a difference between choosing your battles and being taken for granted.
As for the rings --- I took mine off a few months ago because I didn't want to answer questions about my husband. I am still married in my heart but it became easier to carry on without the world knowing I am living in the land of in between. You'll know when or if you need to take them off. Hang in there.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou
