Gmum, can you work at a daycare or preschool or childcare center at a health club and bring her with you? Money won't be good, but maybe you could work your way up? Can you be a nanny for a family and bring her with you? Maybe take classes at night or online even and get a degree that way? Her separation anxiety won't last forever, if you start working and just meeting people and getting some experience, maybe you can gradually work up from there?