tl2, you're right - burden of trust thing. GS9 - going the extra mile. Both relate to the same effort she'll need to do, when she's ready.

I think when the fog starts to lift, maybe she'll get there. I will continue to detach some and work on myself.

M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)