Mona, you have hit the nail on the head. Again. Just because he wants something doesn't mean I have to give it to him. Every thing always needs to according to his time table. I'm so sick of it. Besides, at this point I'm not sure he could be further away from me, so no point in trying to please him.
I'm strongly considering consulting with a lawyer, just to know my rights.
Pho, I'd love nothing more than to throw darts at him. He totally deserves it too.
As far as work, I don't have a clue. I was dumb enough to leave university when I moved to the US, so I don't have any kind of degree. Never had a job that I liked either. And then theres the issue of my D. She doesn't exactly deal with separation well and has only been away from me very little. She's in a play group twice a week and cries when I leave. The only reason I can do it, is because I love and trust the woman who runs it incessantly. Therefore I will need something I can do from home. It'll take a while to find a nanny and I won't be able to make enough to cover child care costs anyways....argh.