tl2,

I like your simple and elegant solution. I'm just struggling with how to bring it up

The issue I have is that my information is based off intel I wasn't supposed to get - I snooped when I told her I wouldn't. Option 1: continue to snoop (but not tell her) and if I find anything to ask to search her phone in front of her. Then it would appear like I found the evidence in front of her and respected her privacy. At that point I could demand for the commitments.

Option 2: Tell her I don't trust her yet and I need some assurances before I can begin to trust her. The assurances would be the 3 commitments you listed

I personally like option 2 because I 1)don't have to snoop or 2) wait until I find incriminating evidence. What do you guys think?

Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou