Like you said, the stbxw will need to change. She's a crazy train.
Just don't hop off one crazy to get aboard another crazy. But, the fun of a few dates with some attractive women, to see what the ball field looks like would be fun. I have a friend at work who had his wife have a MLC, and the D was BAD. He was really shook up, his second D, but from what I can tell a great guy. It took him 2 years to bring up the courage to date... I would think a year would feel ok to me, if I was in his spot. His EX, though, found 5 guys in that time, and then shacked up with a divorcing guy, and sound like it stuck.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
