Realistically, you can't date and share the same house. Not and stay healthy, anyway. Just that suggestion shows how she's in la-la land.

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I vascillated between all the validation and trying to be "perfect" and offering tough love.


Finding balance is key, and I'm sure it is not easy.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!