Gmum, I would choose to communicate with him by throwing darts at him. A different message for each body part that gets hit with the dart. I am sure us DB'ers can come up with the code.
I am sorry, I am very anti-spouse today. Going through my anger phase.
I hear you about the financial independence. When I left my job to have my D, I actually made slightly more than H at that time. And now I am starting all over. You will get to that point, we both will. What kind of work are you looking for?
