So..towards peace and happiness..

[Sotto]

Thanks guys, TBH I just keep letting the feelings come and go. I notice them, but I don't act on the basis of them. I notice that one day I feel hopeful about our sitch, then another I'm ready to move on, then another I can't imagine us together again, then another I feel tender towards H and so on. I just go with it and try not to let the feelings either way lead me. I try and trust in the DB process TBH.

I've been busy lately and will be (work and social stuff) pretty much right up until Xmas. My social life has taken on a life of it's own and it is nice to get regular invites to do things. It's last week of divorce recovery workshop next week. I have found that helpful and would recommend it to anyone considering it. The key messages are certainly congruent with DB principles. However, it is very much about moving on from the D and 'closing the door' so I'm trying to take the bits that are helpful and leave some that don't fit so well.

Well, what can I say about my sitch? Very little really. NC from H and I haven't contacted him. The D process is stalled pending further financial info from him. I haven't chased that, he hasn't updated me. A friend of mine is going through a D and hers seems to be rocketing along. I'm not complaining. It would suit me to settle things financially, but I'm not going to prod and poke the D process in order to achieve that. I may at some point in the future but not just now.

I feel my updates must be a little dull to read. Same old, same old. No movement...nothing to see here. I know I'm moving forward and I'm making progress though, so I guess that's the main thing and the part I have control over.

Thanks for reading and take care all xx