Tl2..he said I should choose marriage counselor, so would probably start with DB coach. I have little trust in counselors right now. I am just waiting to see if he does anything to initiate a date night or anything. I dont know his real motivations, only that the timing is just so suspicious. When I said that, he said he was planning on trying to reconcile before he saw the court petition. He will still have to pay every month regardless so I am confused.
We are both going ahead with court and I'm worried. Judge may give me more then state mandated and he could adjourn (good possibility of this) with atty in which case I will too. He will have to pay majority of legal fees. Judge may just give mandated cs and then the plan is supposedly to work on rebuilding us. Judge may not give me state mandated (little possibility) and I will put hold on it. Neither of us is bringing a lawyer to this. (Both our attorneys said unnecessary at this point) if he does I will request different day with counsel.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
