2point0... you should copy that post and put it in your own thread. That was some deep stuff.
I feel like I have done a good job taking care of me, becoming a better man and really looking at my marriage and seeing what I did wrong or could have done better (my wife only gave me one reason but I know it was much deeper than that). I know she sees where I am at. I am sure FB keeps her up to date even though shes blocked. It is just hard to maintain this state when there are no signs of change. I am not sure DB'ing is working in that regard or if I am even doing it correctly.
Once divorce happens that is it for me. This chapter of my life will be closed. That chapter is deep... going back to childhood. I started looking into it a bit last night. I guess a joint petition is how I envisioned it going. I don't want any back forth, any waiting game. I want both of us agreeing on everything up front, submitting the paper work together, having a court date and that being that. That is why I thought a discussion was needed... but me filing on my own is still an option. Anyway, like I said, it is a little ways out but just starting to think through it.
Now that I have started thinking about moving in this direction, why do I get a feeling that WW will initiate D within the next few days? I think life works in funny ways like that sometimes.
