OK, I found out the reason why s14 called me to get him out of W's (and om) place Tuesday night, and why he came with his suit case. It turns out s14 was in his room with his headphones on, and om was cleaning and called out for help when he was lifting something. S14 did not hear him, om charged into s14's room and started yelling at s14 and using insulting and cursing language.
This is not surprising, as W's 1st comment about om was that "he drinks a lot, and he is angry", (which led me to refer to him as "drunk/angry guy"). He may be dealing with his alcohol problem now, but the anger issue is a hard one for anyone to deal with.
Things are going smoothly with s14 here at my place. Before when I had s14 after a week with his mom he would say over and over to me "do you want to fight?" Already yesterday he only said this once to me. He was able to bond last night with d21 as they staid up late just chatting.
I like having 2 of our 4 kids under my roof. It's more work, but it's worth it.
