Just because he wants more time with D, or he wants to put plans in place or he wants to keep more of his money or HE WANTS blah blah blah, does not mean you have to do anything. You are 100% in control of your actions and you only need to please yourself. He fired you from the job of pleasing him.
Next time he asks how you would like to communicate with him, let him decide, he can chose you to communicate with one of your fingers or with 2 specific letters of the alphabet, entirely his choice
You should peek back at your thread and look for all of your little 'i wish' statements. I think I might do the same. Then we will have a clear picture of what we really want, and those are the plans we need to have in place before christmas!
If you noticed, all the things he thinks he wants are things you have to do, but all the things you want are things you get to do. He is still focused on you, while you are starting to think of a world without him. That does not mean you are giving up, and when you think he is thinking you gave up on him and that will push him further away, recognize that thought as being there, but that it is not true.
Keep going with baby steps toward where you want to end up!
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
