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[Mona52]

Mona,
His life will go down the toilet, until he finds another sucker to take care of him.
Right now I am feeling the same way, only I feel guilty, like it is my fault if he gets another victim. Like, if I would have just dealt with it, this new woman would not be getting hurt.

I will never pay for him ever again and I think he knows that and that is why he doesn't want to work on our marriage. He will never get the free ride that he had from me again.
That is identical to how I think my H might also be feeling. I am pretty sure by now he knows I am not there for him anymore.

I so hope sooner rather than later I won't care anymore. I still get really sad to think that next year, the year after, 5 years from now, he will be just a distant memory. Someone I used to know.

I try to imagine what WILL be in my life on the day I look back and think the H is just someone I used to know.