LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (6)

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Hiya Trumpet,
It is onward and upward for me no matter what she wants. She has already told me
"she believes our D will finalize, we'll each have our own homes and then maybe in a couple months I will call her up and ask her to go for a walk or to the park or dinner or something. We won't call it dating. We won't label it but when issues arise we can go to see a C to help us work through it. We won't have to see each other for a couple days or a week as we work through these issues. Then someday there may be a new proposal, a new ring and a new ceremony."
Personally, I think she is crazy. I have been and will continue to fight for this M until the paperwork is signed. Then I'm done.
However, I do believe she will come back around and I know I'm not in charge. If I were in charge then absolutely not but God is in charge. I know if God calls me to reconcile I will answer but I know He has helped me establish ground rules for what she will need to do in order to have me back in her life. I will not take back the old M, the old person she was and definitely not the person she is today. She needs serious professional help and I will not take her back unless she is getting help.