How are you Sorgan and Rai? I try to find you on the other threads too, but there are so many posts, that is about as overwhelming as my sitch
thanks for checking in. Don't be overwhelmed by this. We all have times when we are necessarily self-absorbed. You seem to really be in the throes of things right now, so cut yourself some slack. That said, if you ever want to reach me, just post in my thread and I can come looking for you. You can also follow certain threads.
It seems like we are in pretty similar circumstances right now. you have awoken to the reality that your WW is very selfish and will do anything to manipulate the situation to her advantage. You are not biting, so she escalates her threats. Her threats are gestures used to bend you to her will. When she sees that you will not bend, things will slow down. It feels like you are on a runaway train now, right? As soon as the wheels start rolling, though, your WW will hunker down, and your sitch will grind to a halt - or perhaps, more aptly, a stalemate. When I first got dissolution papers from my W, I was devastated and I thought that she would be relentless in her pursuit of full separation. That was more than a year ago. Ugggh. I now pray for a quicker end to this purgatory.
In-house separation is no way to live and you are right for rejecting this approach. I just wanted you to know that you are not alone in this.
