Now what?

[melweb]

tfish, I am so sorry. I feel for you. How far from "home" are you? I am about 1500 miles.

My H is acting weird too. Monday before Tgiving, and 2 weeks after BD, the army recruiter was here. After he leaves, I go upstairs to get in jammies and come back down to husband sitting in kitchen listening to an Alice in Chains song (not his usual genre.) I say "Whatcha doing?" He says "I am in mourning." I say "S18?" He says "No, our marriage." Anyone else find that weird??--this was his decision.

Then Wednesday before Tgiving, we are talking about the gym here at our apt complex. I went once, he asked me if I had been back. I say "no, I find treadmills boring, but I am doing yoga here at home." The he calls me a MILF. Well apparently not.

I will stay strong!! I will stay not mad and not angry!!

Can anyone advise on this: Part of my GAL was to get a job to get me out of the house and get some friends, and money of course. And I think it really bothers him that I don't work/contribute financially. But I have had 2 people tell me that might not be in my best interest financially right now. I have been SAHM for most of our marriage with 2 part time jobs in the last 6 or 7 years that netted us around $500/month.
I know its prob a lawyer question, but I don't have one yet,and I have already put in some apps. Thanks.