"Porn issue"??? OMFG! Sounds like an execellent idea to turn a healthy, curious kid into some kind of pervert. That won't affect him at all. Ugh! These people shouldn't work with children.

I'm thrilled to hear it went so well with the C though. It will nice for your S to have another great adult in his life, Besides his mom.

I second everything Pigpen said. You're holding it together when everyone else is falling apart. I hope you allow yourself some breathing room.
If there isn't already a tech geek (ahem) meet up, start one.

Every time I read on your thread, I try to nudge myself in your direction a little bit.
"Mona didn't take it lying down, so why should I" kinda thing .....