Okay Mona, I am taking your advice and saying to myself out loud "I can NOT control this, I need to step away from this".
I was afraid of how STBX would act after picking S4 up from church tonight. (btw we had a really great time making ornaments, decorating cookies, etc. together) He was polite and neighborly while we were in the chapel but the parking lot, well different story. I handed him S4's school backpack and his mail from the house. He looked at the power bill and just handed it back to me without saying anything. whew!
He saw the mortgage statement and said something about me saying I wanted the house, you do still, don't you? I was hugging S4 and saying goodbye, I looked up at him and said "I do not want to talk about this in the parking lot". He goes "fine by me", something about his tone was so icy.
I got home and receive this TM:
If you don't want to talk about it to each other anymore that's fine. I will have my L send something to your L tomorrow.
I won't respond. He continues to think he can bully me and threaten me to get his way. I know I have set the precedent in the past but I am EP 2.0. He can go ahead and have his L send something because we have been trying to schedule this meeting for 2 weeks now.
How did we get so far apart?
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
