Pink's journey - living with pain

[Vanilla]

Sweetheart

I believe it's very straightforward really.

XWH is entranced by TauC. TauC is a game player, probably a man in every country she goes to.

But still WH is still enthralled, there is a part of him and that part knows the truth but is in denial. It will be clear to XWH he is free to R and still there is no happy ever after. Why not? It is clearly not XWH M that is the barrier. Where is the hand in hand to the sunset then?

So he returns where his Plan B is, with you.

When and if XWH wants an R with you, there will be no confusion. TauC memory will be in her rightful place, the trash bin with the waste slops.

His tears are for himself, tears of self pity.

I think it's ok for you to stand. Perfectly fine and quite extraordinary. This is the father of your children, your once beloved H. You are attractied to him.

If you ML, and V is less concerned about it, ensure you use protection. TauC behaves as a tacky French tart. Probably mouldy and full of creepies.

I think it's time to LRT. Let WH know what life without Pink to mop his tears will be. A little reality check won't hurt.

Now a discussion on dropping the rope. Dropping the rope isn't letting go of standing or a future R with XWH. A new R, a possible new M.

Think of the rope as two people holding a rope at either side of a deep well. As one pulls hard we move to the well. Dropping the rope means stopping the other from driving your emotions. From pulling you to the well. If you drop the rope, you will drive your own emotions. You can no longer fall in the well.

It can also be like being tugged by a speedboat that is driven by a madman. Going anywhere they please, pulling you behind.

Time to let go the rope so xWH no longer triggers you. You attach the rope to you.

I am a fine one to advise you, I still trigger with my stbxWH!

Cheers to dropping the rope but still standing. Let XWH run around in circles, stand instead and smile.

V