Wait in the home or move out?

[runn79r]

She refused to have him out of her life and wants to continue the relationship. At the time I felt like I had no options and that because of the resurfacing of the OM that this was going to go on and on so we both agreed to the separation.

Only reason why I'm moving out is that I don't particularly want the house (travel for work so don't need the hassle of caring for it alone) and she couldn't afford to live anywhere else (kid, dog, cat, parents near by). So the decisions on that front have all been fair and amicable.

She is well aware that I have forgiven her and want to continue the marriage (we've learned a lot about both our shortcomings, which are all fairly minor). Are you saying I should put my foot down on the divorce/separation process and move back into the house? Seems that is counter intuitive to not pressuring them to change their mind.