I offered to go to Dr. with her for PET scan. She replied a day later and said she'd had many friends offer, but preferred to go alone. That took the wind out of my sails, it was sort of cold. Have known each other for 22 years, 20 years married, to be treated as a stranger.
Then, a few moments after that, I received her list of things in house and how she wanted to divide. She also mentioned house sale proceeds split, retirement accounts split etc. Since she didn't contribute as much over the years, 5 years in work at home business that never profited enough to contribute, she offered 60/40 on house, accounts. And to not touch my retirement account and inheritance $$$. Wow. She wants to GET OUT BAD! Either that or she has a soft landing spot with EA partner. All rather strange.
Certainly still love her, feel for her deeply, but she feels totally lost and caught up in the EA fog and her new "life". At times I see and hear my wife, and other times a total stranger. I'm trying to remain calm, respond as needed, and trying to be loving without any pressure.
Me - Mid 40's W - Mid 40's Married 20 No kids BD - 7/2015 ILYB... Moved out 2 days later Suspect EA
