Thanks for the feedback. Looking at your signature I assume our sit are similar (age, living in same house, discovered timeline, W does not want S or D).
Originally Posted By: Maximus
When people say they are on a rollercoaster ride they mean it.
Complete agree. I have been on the rollercoaster of emotions and still on it; the turns are not as sharp and the drops not as drastic.
As for kids, I completely agree with you that I need to stop before I do/say something I will completely regret. I cannot relate to LBC. But I recall awhile back W asked me if it was better that we live together co-parenting or S (to model the way for kids not live in a lie where mom and dad are happy together). I remember thinking and still believe my kids don't care about how W or I feel.. all they care about is being together as a family and I heard them say that again during this last road-trip.
Originally Posted By: Maximus
We speak in mathematics, logic and equations, etc. They speak poetry, latin, etc. What we think should work generally doesnt if we think like a man
Completely agree and learned the hard way. Before this website I was the poster child for what NOT to do; laying out shemas and presenting facts. W did not like that but I did not understand (then I read the DB book and realized doing the things that don't work doesn't help.. I stopped).
Originally Posted By: Maximus
work on yourself for yourself you will see change
Agree, small positive changes with self improvement opportunities. Earlier this year I was doing well and that's when I saw a change in W (was not expecting it); but then I screwed up and everything feel apart. I need to get my self confidence back!!
Originally Posted By: Maximus
One final thing, she CAN stop him from texting her. It is called cuting ties and she could do that with a message or call
Yes, W even told me earlier this year when she acknowledged to A she said she was going to just stop talking to him and he would get the picture. But because she revealed the A she did not know what to do and was going to continue to talk to him. Fast forward and here I am..
