I did something that exposed OM. It was not the right move at least for me.
When W verbally acknowledged the EA and PA I lost it. I created a blog about the OM (never mentioned W). But I pointed out who the OM was and posted pictures of his text to W (it showed his cell number); very sext explicit. I only called out the A.
I forgot about the blog and a few months passed. OM found out about blog, calls my W, and W goes off on me saying how could I do such a thing.. that his daughter might see it.. that people may put it together and know it was her.. (my thought was.. I don't know or care about his daughter.. how would they know it was W specifically). I deleted the blog that night but perhaps, I should have kept it up since legally OM and/or W cannot do anything about it.
That blog probably gave W and OM more fuel for the A.
I found this website and learned of DB after that event. I think had I found this site 2 years ago (when I first confronted W about OM) DB would have made a difference.
