But I made a decision very early on not to focus on the OM. If I wanted to, there was a lot of damage I could do to him. I have naked pictures he sent to my wife that I could mail to his family (or CEO where he works, principal of his kids school, etc) or I could tell all his friends that he's an POS. But what would that really achieve? Would that help my marriage any? Would it stop my wife from finding a different OM down the road?
Yes, I would feel immediate satisfaction, but it would not serve my ultimate goal of having a healthy marriage.
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou
