Adventures of PP, Woofie, and the WAW (9)

[Mona52]

PP!!

I gotta throw my womanly opinion at you for what I think your wifey might be doing

She is asking you for 2 completely differently things. I think she is checking to see which one you give her.

On the one hand she is saying she had a problem with you being a bit needy about the R. She felt you had insecurities about her leaving. She wants NONE of that, and is worried to see it.

On the other hand, she wants you to open up to her, but if you show her you are insecure, like she is asking, you have just majorly broken her fear above.

Feel free to tell me if I am over-simplifying, but I would be a bit cautious about the 'sharing of feelings'. Unless, of course, those feelings are pre-approved by her.

I am not saying she is deliberately setting a trap. People don't REALLY know what they want. She may think she does not want your insecurities, but not realize that your insecurities boost her ego.

I would err on the side of caution and not show her insecurities (not that you have any!)

I died a tiny bit inside when you said you would be leaving for a year, but you clearly said you would have internet access so don't go leavin us behind!

To sweeten the deal and keep you around, you can even call me Woofie

I am very very proud of what you have accomplished ON YOUR OWN! Moving a mountain was a little hard, but you did it!