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Romulan ale is just DELICH!


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Hello 2ltl2lt,


I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.

The romulans bearing gifts reference is cracking me up Maximus!I'm also glad you can't stand romulans and are keeping your sense of humor 2ltl2lt!

The concert invitation is interesting. It could be cake eating in a major way.

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Thanks for the grin y'all! Gotta laugh sometimes or we'll go crazy anyway!

Cristy,
I accepted the invitation to concert with W for Friday night. The most interesting thing about it is that it will conflict with her softball games. They didn't have games last week due to Thanksgiving so this would have been the first ones since my confrontation with OM and "fantasy land " friends. Not sure what to think about it but I'm not going to ask. She rarely misses any games.

Still going to remain on high alert for cake crumbs! Romulan food cake!


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2ltl2lt,

I'm glad you will be on high alert for Romulan food cake crumbs!

You stood your ground on not sharing the house every other week and not being on board with D going with W to MIL overnight after dance. If W isn't cake eating, she is certainly doing a temperature check on you.

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I'm not ready to file yet. Im not to crazy about the creeps on Tinder either, but maybe a few bad experiences is what will turn things around. Who knows? She has also said that she thinks she would find it attractive if I were to meet and date women. I can't even imagine myself doing it though, not for a long long time. Hell, I can hardly stand the one I married why would I want to get another one!


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Beware 2ltl,

Our WS/WAS subject us to the Kobayashi maru test each day and are disappointed if we fail.

I think the borg would have had a hard time assimilating them.


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Well the concert tickets fell through, but she still wants to do something together. I'm thinking indoor skydiving!


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That way I can imagine her jumping without a chute.


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So I am about to leave for "date" with W. We ended up getting the concert tickets after all and are driving across town to the venue. Should be an interesting ride. She told me this morning that she hasn't been sleeping very much and doesn't know why.?? Could it be...maybe...possibly......GUILT!!!! Just a hunch. I'll report back tomorrow. Me and the kids are going to get our tree tomorrow afternoon then make popcorn strings.


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