I'm really starting to think that my H is a narcissist. He told me yesterday that once our relationship didn't fulfill his needs anymore that he wanted out. If it didn't revolve about him he could care less. He knows that is wrong and that in relationships there has to be a give and take, an ebb and flow, but he really doesn't know how to get that into his head and heart. It's not just with me that he is like that. All his relationships, be it friendships, work relationships or family relationships are like that. If they don't revolve around him or are a benefit to him, he just leaves them behind. I wish I could tell him this so he could get help in dealing with his issues, but I know that this has to come from him and him alone. I guess first step is that he realizes that it is a re-occurring problem in his life. But he seems to be ok to live like that. From one relationship to the next, one friendship to the next. As much as he has hurt me with his actions and inactions, I feel sorry for him.
I just don't know how much longer I can hang on. I want to be in a relationship that has mutual respect, mutual caring and compassion. I just don't know if my H will ever be capable of that.
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
