Uphill - I haven't had to shell out any money yet for his choice but I am sure it's coming. My L is fighting for me to not pay a some for a divorce I don't want. We will see. I can see how this would be aggravating for you. Just wanted to offer my support too.
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15