Yea that is what I thought Sandi... except she did not dig for details. I Just said it was fantastic and then she was like tell everyone I say hi!... and that was the end of that.
I am really starting to feel like the divorce talk needs to happen with my wife soon. Not an ultimatum (have seen that fail time and time again on this board) and not a relationship talk, just a talk saying alright already… let’s move this forward. I am moving forward, but I cannot completely move forward until that is figured out and the process itself will take time. Some people say well what is the difference between being divorced and not. To me it is huge. Once we are divorced, I will never be able to talk to my wife again. I am fully prepared for that. I went down that road once with her already (broke it after a year when she called me), I am ready for it. I know this, she probably knows this. She will be a threat to any future relationship… she is too powerful. A new relationship is not possible until she is 100% out of the picture.
Any thoughts? Of course I do not want to be inpatient or make a mistake. I love her very much and think a new marriage between us could work. But this dark limbo state is too much. I could see maintaining this if there were some signs, but there aren’t. We hardly ever communicate in any way; I have not even seen her in over 4 months now. I don’t know, might be just about time.
