That's actually another weird part of this - the OM's wife was so distant that she always left when anyone was around. I've actually only talked to her 3-4 times in the 5 or so years I'd been friends with the OM, including lots of time working on cars, parties, dropping off my kids for babysitting (with his kids - they are about 10 years older than mine)...

But I don't think it matters because they have already settled the D. At least I think so - we stopped talking while things were finalized.

Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou