So Mr Bond is there a way tell you in privet instead of on the message board.
Im not trying to be insensitive, but Im having trouble understanding why there is so much concern for secrecy at this point. Lets accept as fact that you shared naked pictures or videos or something of your wife with somebody else. I dont care WHAT is in the pictures in the slightest.
What we want to understand is -why-. - Someone paid you a bunch of money? - You were in debt and used it as collateral? - You were proud and wanted to show her off? - You get turned on by other men looking at your wife? - Someone held you at gun point and demanded it of you? - You wanted to make her feel badly about herself? - You wanted to exert your control or dominance over her?
The list goes on, but my point is that something about this act has caused a major rift in the relationship between you and her. Whether it's reparable or not remains to be seen. What IS known is that without facing your issues, it remains likely that something similar could happen again in a future relationship.
In any case, I believe the first step is to solve out why this happened so that you can move forward.
