Vise and Raliced, thanks for stopping in. I am sorry I have not stopped by lately. I am so busy. I will try to stop by your threads at some point. I don't know how some Dbers are able to make them so available to help. I hope to be able to pay it forward one day.

Vise, I am sorry that you lost your house and it strained your relationship with your F. regarding my house, I actually don't want the house, but I do want my share of the equity in house. They are desperate to underestimate the value of the house. I think losing the house would be a financial and ego blow, but I can survive that. It is the not knowing. They are dangling this alleged document right outside of my view.

Raliced, How are you? I know a lot of my fears are petty, not rational, yet experienced by so many of us. Thanks for corroborating and validating. So far, they have not produced the documents. perhaps they never will. who knows?

RAI


Me 48 XW 45
lots o' kids
D April 2017