Is, this time was just an example of 'more of the same from you'
That is the point we are trying to make. Maybe next time, you can take the first step on trying to make the arrangements. wife might bitch about it, so what. That is her issue, not yours. you will be trying. you will be doing what wife has expressed as a concern or shortcoming.
I am just saying that it is something to think about...more of the same is basically the opposite of validating her concerns...it essentially comes off as dismissive of her concerns, feelings and thoughts...you get my drift?
