Mutatio. - she did find childcare within 10 minutes of the problem arising - S8 is going straight his friends house after school - he then goes to football practice and back to friends house. - I will pick him up at 8-9 pm

S11 will go home from school, W will cook his food , he will then walk to scouts group at 6. They are going climbing . I will pick him up at 10pm. W will go out to concert at 6:30.

W was just as annoyed with a friends mum who will not allow her s11 to be alone with our s11 as she feels they are too young.

I know I should share in the arrangements of childcare but often W is reluctant to relinquish control - the perfectionist wants it 'done right.'

In fact when I first booked my flight I told her I would be late home - 9pm and that we needed a sitter as she was also out. She said fine it won't be a problem - of course she forgets that part.

Last edited by isittoolate; 12/02/15 03:36 PM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16