Yes. She left on the 16th October after telling me a week before. Friends are impressed with how far I've come in coping but it doesn't feel easy. It's good to have the forum to vent on. Who knows what the future will bring? Trying to follow my own advice and listen to the wise words here. Sotto thanks for your advice today. I'm going keep contact to the minimum (only practical issues) and do nothing dramatic. The next few days alone are going to be for me despite the down moments.
